Most of us girls have at one point or the other wondered if our man really loves us. They just don’t show it! Kind of makes you wonder if their emotions for you are less intense than yours for them, or if they’re really into you? Or maybe they’re just wired that way? Maybe they really do suck at displaying their emotions? Hmm…
Well, luckily for you, you don’t have to spend even a second pondering on those questions anymore! You see, men may not say it out in words, but their actions speak way louder. And if you pay attention to them, you can know for sure that your man loves you more than you think! Here are ten such signs you need to watch out for:
1. He Respects You
His treatment of you screams R-E-S-P-E-C-T! He has immense respect for the individual you are, the choices you’ve made as well as your likes and dislikes. Whether it’s alone or in front of people, he never does or says anything to insult or undermine you. Rather he admires you and looks up to you the same you way you admire him!
2. He Gives You Space
He knows that sometimes even you feel like being on your own and doing your thing rather than spending every single free moment with him. He never spies on your phone or stalks your Facebook profile and he even encourages you to hang out with your girlfriends! And when you’re out, he doesn’t call every two minutes to know where you are or who you’re with.
3. He Gets Jealous In A Cute Way
He might give you space but whenever a guy tries to hit on you or stares at you in an obviously interested way, his jealous side comes out even though he desperately tries to hide it! And that doesn’t mean he doesn’t trust you. He does! He just can’t help being a little possessive of the best thing that’s happened to him.
4. He’s Friends With All Your Friends
Especially your best friend! He knows how much your BFF means to you and he tries his level best to be on good terms with him/her. He makes it a point to remember your bestie’s birthday and even helps you out with gift shopping for the birthday party. In fact, your best friend likes him too despite having disapproved of every boyfriend of yours before him!
5. He Gives You All The Cuddles When You’re On Your Period
When you’re PMSing, he turns into your personal fairy godmother, showering you with chocolaty goodies and a bunch of warm hugs and kisses. He’s patient with your mood swings and completely gets how difficult this time of the month can be for you. Which is why he tries his best to keep you comfy and cozy!
6. He Supports You Even When You Sound Crazy
He’s not the one to judge you! Especially when it comes to your dreams and ambitions. His support for you knows no bounds. So, even if you want to watch an indie movie he has never heard of and can’t make out what the title means, he’ll still get first day, first show tickets so you guys can watch it together. He’s a ball of encouragement and positivity!
7. He Really LISTENS
When you talk, he keeps his phone aside, turns off the TV, shuts his laptop and really LISTENS to what you have to say. And no, he doesn’t yawn or look disinterested when you talk about the little things either like that haircut gone wrong! When you need to know his opinion on issues, he always gives an honest and unbiased reply. Other times, he’s just happy to listen to you.
8. He Discusses His Future With You And Makes You A Part Of It
He has his own ambitions and dreams of course, but when it comes to the bigger picture, he cannot envision it without you. He makes you a part of all of his future plans, not because he has to but because he wants to. Whenever he talks of times yet to come, he always uses ‘us’ and ‘we’ instead of ‘I’ or ‘me.’
9. He Means It When He Says, ‘I Love You’ Even If It’s Rare
He might not be the kind to wear his heart on his sleeve, but those rare moments when he says he loves you, those are genuine. Always.
10. He Doesn’t Give Up On You Because Of A Fight
He’s in it for the long haul and a bad fight just ain’t enough for him to give up on being with you. Instead when a serious fight breaks out amongst the two of you, he tries to patch things up by having a mature, adult discussion.
If you have a man who displays all of these ten signs, consider yourself lucky and hold on to him tight! Such men are very hard to find.
