A few easy, sensual suggestions might ignite your love life when it comes to sex advice for married couples. To rekindle your sex life, you don’t necessarily need to spend a lot of money on fanciful sex objects or ask someone to drip hot wax over your body. Sometimes a little enthusiasm and the occasional pleasant surprise may go a long way.
You can amaze your partner in bed by carrying out a few simple tasks. Just like that.
Send a Few Raunchy Texts
Sexting is a good lead-up to the main event, which is the sex that follows. Sexting is amazing because you can say whatever you want without worrying about an awkward silence. You can take a riskier approach and just do it.
Sending a truly raunchy sext is preferable than sending your standard “Can’t wait to get you naked” sext. Send a sext that is so hot that writing it causes lip burn.
Clearly state what you want your lover to do to you in the future. Put as many adjectives in as you can. Do odd things without fear. Remember, you’re committed to this until death do you part.
Wait For Your Partner Naked
Be expecting your spouse in a nude state when they enter the room. Coming home to you completely undressed after a hard day at the office is going to make your partner’s day. You will come out on top of the hour even if you forego sexual contact and simply offer the person a naked massage.
Drag Out Foreplay
We’re all so busy that it’s easy to skip the build-up and jump right into sex. Maintenance sex is important in facilitating a close bond with your partner, but that doesn’t mean it should be the only sex you have. Be sure you set aside some time for really slow, passionate sex a few times per month.
On a Saturday or Sunday (we get it, the week is busy), designate a full 30 minutes solely to foreplay. Start with a sexy massage, and explore each other’s bodies. This will give you a chance to connect on a deep emotional level, which in turn will up the passion (and, of course, the orgasm).
Make a Super Sexy Fantasy Come True
Take mental notes whenever your partner mentions a fantasy he or she has. Does he want to play the handyman who arrives to fix your pipes? Is she a police officer here to investigate a noise complaint?
You don’t have to hit up a costume store and buy a full outfit if you don’t want to. You can easily make a costume from things lying around your house. Half of the fantasy is the imagination. This role play surprise will not only turn your partner on but will make him or her feel appreciated since you really listened.
Add In Some Friendly Spanking
Spanking is dipping your toes into kink without taking the full plunge. Make sure your partner is into spanking before you go buck wild. Some people enjoy it while others do not, and surprising someone during sex can get weird…
If you know he or she likes spanking, go for it. It sends shockwaves through the whole sexual encounter. Start light and build up to more aggressive strokes.
Use a Makeshift Blindfold
In the same vein as spanking, try using a tee shirt or sleep mask as a blindfold. It’s a little light bondage that rarely freaks anyone out.
Lie your partner down, cover his or her eyes and take some time to explore their body. Visual deprivation can be a huge turn on and can heighten your other senses.
Tell Your Partner How Sexy He or She Is
If dirty talk is something you’re not comfortable with, that’s okay. You don’t have to talk about your partner’s hard/wet body parts. Instead, just tell him or her how sexy he or she is and how much what they’re doing turns you on.
Sex is a vulnerable position to be in. You’re both naked and want to feel good about yourselves while making each other feel good. Validating your partner’s sexual prowess is a good way to stay connected and keep both of you in the moment.
